THE REASON WHY YOU GO THROUGH WHAT YOU GO THROUGH

 

Life is a journey full of seasons—some easy, some challenging, some downright painful. Often, when we face difficulties, we ask the same question: “Why is this happening to me?” The truth is, the very struggles you endure are not meant to break you—they are meant to deepen you. They are preparing you to develop roots.

Roots Grow in Hard Soil

Think about a tree. It doesn’t grow strong and tall overnight. It starts as a seed, buried in the dark, damp soil. The soil is tight, sometimes rocky, sometimes full of obstacles. But that resistance forces the roots to stretch deeper, to hold on tighter. Without that struggle, the tree could never stand strong in the storm.

In the same way, your challenges are like that soil. They may feel heavy, confining, or uncomfortable—but they are shaping you. They are forcing you to grow foundations in character, resilience, and faith that you could never develop otherwise.

Roots Give Strength and Stability

When a tree faces wind, drought, or storms, its roots keep it anchored. Your personal struggles work the same way. They anchor you to values, to wisdom, and to an inner strength that can withstand life’s storms. The deeper your roots, the more you can stand firm when the winds of adversity blow.

Roots Connect You to Life-Giving Sources

Roots aren’t just about strength—they’re about connection. They draw water, nutrients, and sustenance from the earth. Similarly, the struggles you face can push you to connect more deeply with God, with loved ones, and with your own purpose. The more grounded you become, the more life flows through you, nourishing not just yourself but those around you.

Embrace the Process

It’s easy to look at trials as setbacks, but they are often setups for something greater. Your challenges are the quiet architects of your soul, carefully building a foundation that no temporary comfort could ever provide.

So the next time you find yourself in a season of struggle, remember: this is not punishment. It is preparation. You are developing roots—deep, strong, life-giving roots—that will allow you to thrive, no matter what storms come your way.

Reflection:

Ask yourself today: Where am I being challenged? How can I let these challenges deepen my roots instead of weaken me?

Tarrent-Arthur Henry

Tarrent-Arthur Henry is a husband and stepfather of two wonderful young men. He is the co-founder and President of ‘Righteous Uplifting Nourishing International, Inc’. a 501c3 Non-Profit Organization whose global mission is to empower people and change lives. www.intlrun.org He is a Writer, Author, Poet, Itinerant Pastor, Chaplain and Certified Coach, Speaker, Teacher, and Facilitator with Maxwell Leadership. Tarrent-Arthur and his amazing wife, Helen-Cummings Henry have earned a well-deserved spot on the SUCCESS 125 Awards list of most influential leaders by Success Magazine for 2022. His first book, written under his penname, Tarrent ‘Authur’ Henry, “Turn Off Your Brain and Listen to God - Book One,” allows people he would never meet, hear his message, and have the opportunity to live a transformed life, which allows him to leave a legacy, to change lives not only now, but for a future generation